Don't wait till you lose her.

I've heard far too many stories from my girlfriends about their bfs. Every girl has that something that they cannot stand.

Talk about me for instance.


1) I expect my Bf to treat me better than my normal friends.

I think, that is not much to ask for right? If my normal friends can treat me better than you did, I think I'm better without you. I have this friend for instance, we treat her better than her bf does. In the emotional sense at least. We listen to her, we talk to her nicely, we don't hit her.


2) If you don't want to do an activity with her, at least let her do it with her friends.

To girls, I think as much as we want our bfs to enjoy the activities we want to do, and yes, we do get a little bummed if you don't do it with us. But hey, it's totally fine. We still have friends to do it with. I recently got hooked on fishing (pun not intended). So I was thinking, why not go camping and fishing at the same time. I told my Bf and to me, he doesn't really seem to be interested in that activity and he's gonna be busy with work. To me, it's fine. I can definitely jio (ask) my cycling buddies or other friends to do it with me. I was even contemplating to do it alone. HEHEHE

3) Don't make promises you can't keep.

I have heard this kind of stories far too many times. Just by making an empty promise, you will appease your gf? It doesn't solve anything. Don't make promises you can't keep. Full stop.


4) Talk is cheap, do it.


When someone tells me they are gonna do this and that for me. I just listen. I don't believe it or expect it. I have had too many experiences whereby people just talk and never do. Want me to be happy because you're gonna do something for me? I'm only gonna be happy when you actually do it.

5) Guys, don't wait till you lose her.

Don't disappoint your girl too many times, coz eventually, she is gonna find someone that treats her better than you did and is a doer more than just a talker. Step on it before you lose her.




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Roseann Zerlinda



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